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For me the answear is yes. My love of anime and cosplay. Now dont get me wrong i liked the girl but she eventually left me cause she saw gaming and cosplaying as to nerdy for her which was dumb in my opion. So has this happended to anyone else.
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Not really. If I was going to start dating some girl I would probably find someone that enjoys the same things I do. Otherwise there's just no connection, and something like that is bound to happen I guess. Idk dude if she can't hang with cosplay and anime, this probably was a blessing in disguise lol.
Also I think there is already a forum topic about this question. You should post your question in there, you would probably get more replies, and it helps reduce clutter on the website.
meh i typed in this main idea in search but did not find anything.
Mine is almost into gaming as much as I am, so it's all good.
I think I've seen two threads thus far about relationships and gaming, actually. ):
I broke up with a guy for his lack of interest in gaming. It was less that he didn't game, and more that he: didn't like that I gamed, and didn't have anything else in common with me. He was very polite about my hobby when I attempted to discuss it, but I could sense his displeasure. He never made an effort to learn about it either, while I made every effort to learn about his interests (sports, cars, boring stuff). When he visited me at work, he made it as quick as possible, and when I met his friends he glossed over the topic as quickly as he could.
In all, games are important to me. I care less about whether or not my boyfriend plays them, and more about whether or not he cares that I do. I would feel the same if he criticized my love for art or fashion. I hate knowing that I embarrass someone... especially when I'm far too hot for him to date anyway. I mean, come on.
i dont care if i embarrarsed someone. i love gameing and anime and im going to keep loving them regardless of whatever someone thinks.
I don't think that gaming could ever be the main reason for loosing your significant other. There were probably other underlining reasons that finally pushed her over the edge so don't worry. Games are just games.
I couldn't have said it better myself.
no really it was my gameing. she told her friends im a nerd for playing them and made fun of how much i got into the games storys sometimes. but there are plenty of fish in the ocean it just depends on what your using for bait. for me its a fistful of games on the end of the hook.
i dated a woman who wanted to play some games wit me becuz i loved gaming, but i didnt really care for her too much after a while and broke up wit her anyway. i would like a woman who already had a pre-established luv for gaming before we met, cuz in that relationship, i felt like she wanted to be involved too much, and then what would i have left. but i have been involved with several women since, and most women i encounter already know how much i luv gaming, and it doesnt appear to be a big deal to them (at least not visibly, they might be holding it in). but i figure, my games and comics have been around for many many years and arent going anywhere, so oh well.
Meta77, there's someone out there for each of us. The one for you will embrace every aspect of you with fervor, for good or ill and never place you in judgement for any of it.
@ Meta77
All you need to do add is your cosplay style. Forget that girl.
The nerdiness keeps me and my girlfriend together, I love it, and gaming has improved my life.
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well ddr improved my feet eye coordination lol.